Who to invite and who to cut out? My FI and I had originally wanted to invite around 100 people. That is not going to be possible because my family is very large. So I thought maybe around 150 instead. But my problem is, who can I cut. I don't want to hurt peoples feelings. I am close to a few of my cousins, but if I invite them, I feel that I have to invite their siblings and their spouses. I'm close to the one, but just not the others. I want to keep the list down as much as possible to save on money and space......have anyone of you run into this problem and what did you do to fix it?