this is a common occurance in my relationship with my FI. I spend most weekend evenings by myself. You would think it was because he was out with the guys, or heck, cheating on me, but no, it's because he has to take a shower and get ready for bed. Seriously! He's a 33 year old trapped inside a 83 year olds body. I can understand during the weekdays that he wants to get ready for bed and relax because he does get up early for work. But on the weekends you would think he'd want to stay up a little later and spend a little more time with me, but no. We went to the grocery store then for our walk and I left his house by 8. I didn't want to spend another evening by myself so I went shopping but it was crazy so I came home so I am still by myself. With this kind of relationship I could have another and he would never know (not that I would I love him). Sometimes I don't even know how we are getting married when we never spend any time together. His defense is we are getting married so we will spend more time together then and that he was just so use to being by himself for so long. I just don't know what to do sometimes.