So earlier I got a call from FI and the conversation went something like this:
FI: Um, hunny, are we supposed to get gifts before the wedding because a package just arrived.
Me: Yes, that's normal
FI: But do they know it got sent here instead of to them?
Me: Yes, the chose to ship it to us
FI: So do we just keep it wrapped and bring it to the wedding to put on a table?
Me: No! If they shipped it to us that means we don't have to lug it to the wedding!
FI: Well we can't open it yet, it just doesn't seem right. I want to call them and make sure they meant to ship it to us. Every wedding I've been to people bring gifts.
Me: Well now with online registries it saves the guests the trouble of bringing the gift to the wedding. They usually ship the gift then bring a card to the wedding.
FI: I'm not sure...
Ugh!!! Now he won't let me open it so I'm online printing out proof that it's fine!! His cluelessness is kind of cute at the same time though.