Bridal Party- sisters included?
So I've been putting a lot of thought into my bridal party. My definites are my best friend from college as MOH, and 2 other college friends. Then I'm not sure. So what I'm going between is asking a good high school/childhood friend OR asking my fiancee's sisters. Now he has 3 sisters...and it would be an all or none deal as I know the other(s) would be insulted if they weren't included. However, I feel that they may be insulted even if I don't include all of them...my fiancee and I have been together for 7 years and they've taken me in as family since pretty much the beginning. I would say I'm close to them all on different levels. One of them is married and has a child, we will be having him as our ring bearer...Doug is also his godfather so its great. Now my reservation is that asking all 3 makes for a huge bridal party!! Granted we will probably end up having a huge wedding as well (despite my best efforts of keeping the guest list down...we both have big families). I've been thinking of ways to keep them all involved in the wedding without having them in the bridal party...I could have 2 read a the ceremony and the other be the MC at the reception, but I feel like it's not the same. In talking with them about the wedding it doesn't really seem like they're expecting to be a part of the bridal party because they've asked so who are you going to ask and then have listed my friends. I know money is tight for all 3 so on that note I don't think any of them will mind not having to pay for the expenses. But I don't want to be assuming that either. What do you girls think? How big is your bridal part? I mean if he had one sister or even just 2 I'd be all about including them...he's also planning on asking my brother to be one of his groomsmen, so that just further makes me feel obligated. I appreciate any and all advice!!