My dad is terminally ill with ALS (Lou gerigs). With this illness my dad is all there mentally but not physically. Currently he is pretty much bed ridden, can walk for short periods infrequently, can talk but it is hard to hear him. I want my dad to give me away, want him to be there so I decided to have two weddings. One smaller intimate wedding at his house with close family, and another "bigger" wedding for lack of better words with other family and friends. 1) has anyone or anyone you know done something like this and have ideas to share. 2) if I have two weddings, which one is official? Any experience you all have on a situation like this I would really appreciate your words of wisdom! Tryin to keep smilin!