Hi everyone. I received my save the dates today and I am in the process of buying a fancy return address stamp. One that will also be used for the invitations. My question is, how do I word the name? For example do I just put my to be last name "messina" since I am not yet a mrs. I don't want to put " katelyn and Salvatore Messina" again because I do not yet carry that name. In this case do I use both our names? So conflicted. Any help would be wonderful!!