Wedding Invitations & Paper

To send... or not to send

My grandmother is EXTREMELY against my marriage. She told my mother several times to tell me not to even bother sending her an invitation. When she recieved the save the date, she "filed it where it belongs... in the trash can." So my question is, do I follow her wish of not recieving an invitation, or do I send her one because she is, no matter what, my grandmother?

Re: To send... or not to send

  • I would still invite her.  Someday, she may regret being so unsupportive, but you'll never regret that you made every attempt to let her know you wanted her there.

    Do you mind me asking why she's so against it?
  • He is black and I'm white. The fact that he's Muslim and I'm/we're not may play into it too, but its mainly the race.
  • Send her the invite, like the other person said...just be the bigger person
  • I am so sorry that your grandmother is so hateful.  Send the invite.
  • Thanks everyone! I had planned on sending it regardless of if she wanted it or not, but wasn't sure if that was the "right" thing to do.
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