ok, my fiances brothers step-mom is my dilema. i dont like her to much. alot of the family doesnt. and her kids drive everyone crazy! and they are teenagers. but they are really immature. she is the kind of person that has to make it all about themselves, or her kids. at my fiances niece's 1st and 2nd bday party she wanted everyone to wait 2 hours for her to get a tattoo. and then at thanksgiving she told us how she got her nipples pierced! (shes a big 48 yo woman!) so i dont know whether to invite her to the wedding or not. we are having a small wedding at the little white chapel in las vegas. so only about 25-30 ppl. we are having a small reception after so would it be ok to just invite them to that? because even that would be to much of her! would it be rude? even if we explained only IMMEDI ATE family to the wedding? HELP?!