So my fiance and I live in Omaha, but we are having our wedding in Colorado. I really didn't think size would be an issue since I figured most people would want to come to the reception we are having in Omaha for those who can't make it to the wedding. Then all my friends started telling me how they couldn't wait to roadtrip it out for the wedding... Including one friend who I really hadn't planned on inviting to the actual wedding, but she basically assumed she was invited and I didn't really have the heart to tell her that I had only planned to invite her to the Omaha reception. We aren't that close, but there are other people who I'm afraid will be offended because I am inviting some people from Omaha to the wedding and some people only to the second reception. Is there a way to do this tactfully so as to offend as few people as possible? Is it tacky to say that we didn't have enough room at our venue to invite everyone to the wedding? And how do I tell this friend that we probably won't have enough room to invite her to the wedding?