I will need to only use phone and website RSVP's because we have a tight timeline (due to immigration/visa timelines) and a tight budget. I understand it's rude to say 'adults only', but we really can't fit the children of the couples we are inviting (as much as we'd love to). We will only have an outer envelope on our invites, and we won't be doing any STD.
I have two questions:
1) I've seen suggested elsewhere that it's OK to write on the invite 'We hope the two of you can come' or something similar... is this OK? We are letting people know by word of mouth when we can do it tactfully, but many guests live far away, and won't know.
2) If they RSVP via the website, is there any way of knowing that they are only expecting to come as a couple? It looks like only one person from each party RSVP's when I look at our site.
Thanks!