How early should we send out shower invites? My shower is May 19th so I was thinking my MOA/Mom could send them out the end of march/beginning of April. I dont want to give too much time to RSVP because then people forget to respond, But also I have a lot of out of town family so should I contact the out-of-towners over the phone now and tell them the day and to expect an invite in the near future?