My wedding is June 18. Bachelorette and shower is the weekend of may 27. I want to send my wedding invites out at the end of April. Mom and MOH want to send out Bach and Shower invites the 3rd week if April. Is this all too much at once? Also, should the wedding invites go out after or before the pre-wedding stuff? Wedding RSVP date is May 21. I realize now this is too early but invites are already printed and ready to go. I wish my invite designer would have advised me to make the RSVP date in early June Thanks!!