I am looking for help for my poor sister who is already having serious MIL control problems. The invitations need to go out by Monday, and my sister is in a panic and all stressed out because of the wording. (Future MIL has already made her cry over it) Both sets of parents are contributing some money, however the groom's parents are paying quite a bit more, basically for most of the reception (their choice), and because of this have been adament that the only parents listed at the top of invitation should be them. Exact quote was "The parents who pay the most get put on top of invite".
Our parents are giving what they can, they are divorced. Sister's fiance is backing his mom on this and my sister doesn't know what to do. I think this is insulting towards our family. Any thoughts that I can pass on to her would be great. I have been researching this and can't find anything that breaks down an invitation by who pays the most. Thanks!