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RSVP card / email???

I know it's not tradition but is it tacky to put an e-mail address on the RSVP card.  I was just thinking that in this technological age we might increase our response rate and the speed of response if we include an e-mail address.  It's also more "green".  And it would save on postage and envelopes.  I could still include a traditional RSVP card for the recipients that would not be comfortable with e-mail (like my grandma).

What does everyone think?


Re: RSVP card / email???

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    If you do go the email route just make sure you're consistently checking your spam folder. I've had a lot of legitimate email get labeled as spam for whatever reason. 
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    MWhitson allowed email, phone, website, or snailmail, and I think she's had less than 10% of people use something other than snailmail. 

    You can put the email address there.  But understand - it likely won't save you much money, and could easily create a big headache.  I'd stick to one method, if I were you, just to be able to keep track of responses more easily.
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    It is really nice to have a paper trail of the RSVPs, too. Even though I keep everything in a spreadsheet, I get nervous that my computer will crash or I'll somehow delete it.

    If you give people the option of email, you should still send RSVP cards. To everyone.
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    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_invites-paper_rsvp-card-email?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:cd062f89-8272-496a-b0ab-225e1f87acecDiscussion:fc524fac-f18f-4451-babc-bf80404af0efPost:c16d0de7-0a2f-4180-beb7-efdd1f30717e">Re: RSVP card / email???</a>:
    [QUOTE]It is really nice to have a paper trail of the RSVPs, too. Even though I keep everything in a spreadsheet, I get nervous that my computer will crash or I'll somehow delete it. If you give people the option of email, you should still send RSVP cards. To everyone.
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    This X a million.  And I'm a computer person.  But I want those cards in my hot little hands.
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    We're doing our RSVPs through Wedding Wire.  We have a very small guest list, just WP and immediate family, so even if people don't use the website, it won't be too much of a pain tracking everyone down.  Invitations just went out yesterday, so we'll see.
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