I am getting married on a Friday evening. I work night shift so everyone I work with will not be able to attend. I work with 9 women and at least half of them will have to work. I've been going back and forth on this for months but do I invite everyone , let them figure it out and hope that my closer friends get to go or invite my 4 closest friends and hope the others understand and are not offended???? Of the people I've asked so far it is about 50/50. I don't want to be rude.