I originally didn't want a flower girl or ring bearer, but now I think I want them. We weren't going to invite kids to the wedding when we first started planning, but now we've edited our guest list to include them (since we found a better venue and can now afford to invite everyone). I would really love for Jason's cousin Louis to be our ringbearer (he will be just shy of 4 years old by our wedding day), and I would love to ask my boss's 2 daughters to be the flowergirls (they will be 5 or 6 and 8). However, I think Louis' older sister (I think she'll be 10 or 11 at the wedding) will feel left out...do I include her as a Jr. bridesmaid? I feel bad asking one kid and not the other. Ugh.