FI and I went to Micheals and we were looking at wedding stuff and we got our sand so we can do the unity sand. And since we both have children from our first marraiges ( I have 3 boys and he has a girl and a boy) we got sand for them to put in too. So not only will it stand for us becoming a couple but us becoming a family. I am so excited. Each child has their own color sand and it should look so beautiful once done.