Background before I start: My FI and I are living with his mom currently. She is sick and has cancer and we don't know how long she has plus he was already living at home and I had an apartment which I gave up because I was never there. His brother has a house, my parents have theirs, and my brother and his wife were living in my grandmothers house while she is in a nursing home.
Story: Fi's brother is FINALLY starting to help with his mom enough so that hopefully we don't have to be there as much. We have decided to move on with our lives because she is still able to be home alone and we can't put everything on hold while everyone else goes on with theirs and gives us no help ( very hard decision by the way.) So my brother and his wife decided to move out of the house they were in (my grandmothers) so they bought them one and are moving this weekend. I got very excited knowing my parents can't rent it due to my grandmothers money issues and insurance. My brother thinks the house is his and was planning on renting it. After a big LONG family meeting and lots of issues laid out my brother is upset because we ARE getting the house. I am very excited for it but still feel as if something is wrong. FI and I are graduating college this week and will get the keys next week for the house and plan to fix things up a bit before we move in at the end of the summer. We are SO EXCITED for the house but feel it's at everyone else's expense am I wrong for feeling that way? FMIL isn't wanting us to move and my brother isn't wanting us to have the house but I feel like we have to move on and start to take care of us seeing how no one else is. Please tell me I shouldn't feel bad but instead should be happy and excited!
Thanks for letting me vent!