So I am in my college roommates wedding this October. She asked me and three of her friends from her hometown to be in the wedding. She is now not on great terms with the one BM and the other one moved to the FL (we will call her E). E has now been fbooking everyone about getting things organized for her Bridal Shower and Bachelorette party. She is living in FL and I"m fairly certain is not coming home anytime between now and the wedding, meaning she will not actually be at any of these events.
She keeps pushing have the bridal shower at winery. It is $75 for the place and that doesn't include any food. I was in a wedding a few years ago where I had to spend $100 on the bridal shower just for food and decorations. I thought that was a lot considering the food was only for 20 people.
So the bottom line is, I'm annoyed that someone who won't even be there keeps pushing this winery idea. The bride is not a big drinker, so I don't think she would care either way. E keeps saying she is so excited about thsi idea but if she won't be there what does it matter. I think the bride would prefer a low key picnic at her mom's or something. She is very simple and enjoys low-key gatherings. Money is tight for all the BM all for different reasons. I have been to many bridal showers that have all been picnics or gatherings at someone's house and have been very lovely.
Is it wrong for me to frustrated/annoyed about this situation?
May 2012 Siggy ~ Favorite E-pic
