I just wanted to let you all know that FI and I did our engaged encounter retreat this past weekend. I had mixed feelings going into the weekend and wasn't really looking forward to it. Well we had a great time! We met a bunch of other really nice couples and got to spend some quality alone time without the stress of work, family, and regular day life. They even provided us with some beer and wine Sat. night and we had a little bit of a social gathering with everyone. I just wanted to write about it b/c I know some people were talking about having to go a few months ago. So hopefully this eases any fears or concerns. If you have any questions about it please let me know. I also think its a great thing to do even if you're not Catholic and it isn't required. The Catholic beliefs were not pushed on us at all this weekend and the focus was mostly between you and your FI.