Ok here is my problem. My MOH just got back together whit her husband , which is awesome, but he sings and now thinks he and his band he just put together are going to play at my wedding. I never asked him to or her if he would he just now thinks he is and I am not sure how to tell them I don't want him to without hurting anyones feelings. I love her to death but he is not the best singer in the world and I really don't want live mucis at my wedding. We plan to use a DJ. So any help on how to let him down easy will be great.