A few weeks ago FI and I attended the wedding of an old high school friend of his. FMIL and FFIL, along with FBIL were also there. When we entered the reception venue and checked the assigned table listings we all noticed that the five of us were seated at the same table as FI's ex GF's parents (they were unable to attend the ceremony at the church). At least 2 hours went by before they showed up.
It was awkward that the bride and groom had seated all of us together. They both went to high school with FI and his ex GF and knew their dating history. I understand that it has been nearly 5 years since FI and his ex broke up, and they have both moved on (obviously), she is engaged, to a woman now. However she still tells FMIL that she misses Ryan (my FI) periodically and states it was the worst mistake ever to break up with him. Her parents tell people in FI's hometown they wish their daughter was marrying him instead of a woman and are having trouble dealing with the news she is a lesbian.
FFIL used to be BFFs with FI's ex GF's dad, and FI's ex GFs parents did a lot for him while he was dating their daughter, therefore FMIL thinks they should be invited to the wedding. FI is unsure about this... he is worried how I feel, or my family would feel, but I told him that it is his decision. I just feel like he wants to invite them only to pacify his parents. FYI they are not contributing $$ to the wedding, therefore it is not their decision.
How would you ladies feel in this situation... getting seated at a wedding with your FI and FILs and FI's ex GF's parents?