We're planning on having a reaffirmation ceremony for our 10th anniversary. Our anniversary is on New Year's Eve but we're thinking we don't want to have our ceremony on NYE since not all of our family would be able to attend. Most of our out-of-town relatives come for Christmas and leave a couple of days after. Is it ok to have a reaffirmation ceremony on a different day? We'd like to do it a few days before our actual anniversary.