May 2012 Weddings

Vent! Vent! Vent!

So I went over to my parents today.  First time since the blowup a month ago.  I bought my stepmom (for those who are new, she raised me along with my dad) a pearl necklace for mothers day and gave it to her today.  I knew I wouldn't be able to make it out next weekend due to it being Derby (very busy weekend for me).  Anyway went out there and they asked me to work today since it was the opening event for the season and had an employee call in last minute.  Of course I said yes I would just to help them out in a tight spot. 


Everything was going great for about 5 hours.  Then I see my sister, the first thing she says to me is "don't worry I'm F***ing leaving."  I reply, "Jess, I didn't say anything."

She goes on to curse me out when I'm just standing there.  Maybe I shouldn't have said this but I did, "Bitch I don't know who the hell you think you are but you're not going to talk to me like that."

She storms off and lord behold my dad was standing behind her while she said all of this, I let him know that if she wasn't pregnant I probably would have laid her out right then and there (keep in mind that I am not "ghetto" by any means, but inless you sign my paycheck there is no way in hell you aren't going  to talk to me like that).  He says he can't blame me one bit but he is trying to stay out of it.

Next thing I know my sister and step mom come up to me, as usual my sister is running her mouth again, saying how badly I treat her.  I totally get pulled into something again that I did not start.

Finally, My parents tell me to leave.  OMG I'm so Freaking mad right now I can't even stand it. 

Sorry just had to vent

 

Re: Vent! Vent! Vent!

  • I'm so sorry you are having to go through this with your family... I can't even imagine.
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  • Why is it that you are always told to leave when your sister is the one starting all the s***??? I dont blame you for one bit I would have laid her out too and believe it or not I would have had a little more to say too... What is her deal?!?!? Your dad seen it all so he knows you didnt start anything... I think it's time for your sister to grow up and get over herself.... Sorry girl that kinda has me steaming a little...
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  • I am really sorry about this.. I couldn't imagine! I agree.. why do they make you leave when you're not doing anything wrong??
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  • in all fairness they told us both to go.. what really pisses me off though is that I gave up my day to help them out. Wish I had never even gone over there

     

  • Dont let it get to you... just think today is May 1stLaughing
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  • Girl I am so sorry. Family Drama is the worst. I have to agree I would have knocked the crap out of her. I hate you are going through all this.

  • I'm so sorry... thats beyond frustrating!!!!! Try to feel better knowing you're the bigger person and you didn't do a damn thing wrong.

    And yes... thinking about it being May already probably wont hurt either :) ***Trying to send you happy vibes** I hope it all works out!!
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  • Thanks ladies.  Still a bit upset about it all today but yay it's May!

     

  • So sorry you're going through all of that girlie
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  • I'm sorry, I don't know the back story, I'm a little lost.  I dont know what your sisters issue is, but seems that you did nothing wrong.  I'd be equally upset, seeing red and probably saying things I shouldn't.  I'm so sorry you're dealing with family drama, its the worse!
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