Background Info: My fiance & I have been engaged since May of 2009 and have had the date set for May of 2012 since we got engaged so there have been a ton of people along the way asking about our wedding and the date.
When we first got engaged we talked about having around 300 guests (we both have very big, close families) and from there it went down to 250 guests, since we decided that we would have an adult only reception and we didn't want that many people. But since then we have had a daughter and my thoughts on how big of a wedding I want has changed. My fiance doesn't mind either way, but I am starting to lean towards a smaller wedding for both money reasons (we are paying for our own wedding and now that we have our daughter we are really watching how things are spent) and just the simple fact of me just being more comfortable and happier with the thought of a smaller wedding.
How do we go about deciding who comes and who doesn't come? I am worried that our family/friends that don't get invited won't understand.
DD - Juliana Joan - Born October 27, 2010 - My Little Princess
BFP 1/14/13 - M/C 1/22/13 @ 5 weeks