Just wanted to thank you guys for the dress location help. I did friend Maggie Sottero on Facebook and sent them a message...within 10 minutes i had a response via email from Connie at MS. She looked up my order and told me everything was good and that the shop will have my dress by tomorrow.
THANK GOD! AND....i may be getting a pretty nice refund since the dress was cheaper then i paid.
Big ups to Maggie Customer service...and an FYI to anyone looking for their dress info...facebook really works.