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Help with Flower Girls and Ring bearers

My fiance has three sisters who will be ages 7.5, 8, and 8.5 (they're all adopted and close in age) at our wedding. His mom insisted they be flower girls, which we were alright with, BUT my adorable nephew will be 1.5 yrs old at the ceremony and he has twin sisters (from their mom's previous marriage) who will be nearly 7 at the time as well.

Originally, I thought I could have three flower girls and ask my nephew to be the ring bearer, but my mom thinks I should ask the twins to be flower girls too. Others are making comments that five FGs is too many, which I tend to agree with.

I feel like I couldn't change the three sisters' roles because they would think the FG is more special or important, but I don't want to offend or leave out my twin nieces.
I thought about having the twins be candle lighters since my sister and I were at my brother's wedding, but also think that 7 is a bit too young to ask them to carry fire. haha!

Ideas?!?!

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