Okay a little history of the past two weeks (long)
Last Saturday FI and I were visiting my parents at the winery, a little bit later my sister shows up and pretty much takes over the conversation to talk about her non-stop. I’m pretty use to it so FI and I pretty much ignored her and still had a good time. While I’m sitting 5 feet away from her she leans over and tells my stepmom that I’m totally acting like a bi*ch to her. This so pissed me off but I kept my cool, got up from my seat and announced that it was time for us to leave. Keep in mind that my stepmom was waiting on customers when she said this.
After I got up and headed for the door everyone starts flipping out
Stepmom- This is ridiculous
Sister- Why is Lissa so mean to me
FI- I have no clue what just happened
A little bit later I called my dad since he wasn't in the tasting room at the time to tell him I had left and sorry for not saying bye. He starts telling me that I don't need to come over there starting a bunch of sh*t in front of customers. I hit the ceiling
right about then. 1st off, someone had to have said that I started something for him to say this and 2nd I didn't say or do anything, I left before I said what I really wanted to.
So that is what led to the falling out with my parents. After I wrote them a nice long letter explaining what happened and things from my end as well as how they had hurt my feelings by blaming me for something that I definitely didn’t do they called and apologized. Well after that weekend FI and I decided to just do away with all of the original planning and go away to be married. I let my parents know this last weekend and they flipped once again. My stepmom (who raised me) told me that I’m depriving her of having a wedding for at least one of her girls (sister went to the courthouse a few months ago and let everyone know she was married a week later). My dad wasn’t too happy with our plans either. Honestly I thought they could care less since they had no interest what so ever in any of the planning.
Now my problem is whether or not to invite them to Barbados. I don’t even know if they would come but I don’t feel that I should deprive them of the opportunity. FI on the other hand is livid about the whole situation and doesn’t want to invite them. I stuck between a rock and a hard place on this one. Thanks for listening