His brother is coming into town for the weekend so they're going to go shopping. Based on what FI has told me he's looking for, it sounds like he wants a tux. Our wedding is not very formal, although I ended up with a more formal gown than I was planning on so maybe that's a sign we should bump up the formality a little.
My main issue is that I was planning on using the heavy-duty plastic silverware and paper plates that are included in our catering costs, rather than paying extra for real stuff. (This is assuming they work well cutting the food we select when we have our tasting later this month. If they break we'll spring for real silverware). If FI is in a tux, the plastic silverware immediately feels wrong to me.
IF he does decide to get a tux instead of a suit, should we plan on getting real silverware and dishes? Or am I overthinking?