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Do NOT get a dress at David's Briadal

I traveled to Vegas for my wedding and realized i had a problem with my dress. David's Bridal Corporate will not return my calls or answer my emails. The store manager was rude, she would not help me once I was in Vegas and she blamed me when i came back to the store. 

Here is the email that I sent them, to which they never responded. I just want everyone to know so you can reconsider ordering from David's Bridal.

Help, I need customer service.

Kristen Ciano <kristen.ciano@gmail.com>
Apr 2 (7 days ago)
 
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Hi, 

I have left 4 messages over the past couple weeks at David's Bridal Corporate Office. No one has called be back! 

The store manager at David's Bridal in Freehold, NJ referred me after I visited the store with a complaint. 

I was married on January 16, and got my dress at David's Bridal in Freehold. I let everyone know that I was getting married in Las Vegas and needed the train on my dress bustled  so that my husband and I could walk around Vegas dressed up in our wedding clothes! I had my "second fitting" just a few days before leaving. I asked the tailor -  who was not the person I spoke with the first day -  about the bustle and if i should try it on, and she said, "You don't have to bother putting it back since we didn't do any alterations that would change the length or anything like that. Just take the dress and enjoy!" So I took the dress and I left.

 I put it back on for the first time in the hotel a couple hours before the wedding. There was a hole in the back of the dress and couldn't find the bustle. Panicking, I called the Freehold store. A rep put on the store manager. She asked if no one showed me the bustle. I said no. She told me it could be hooks or loops inside the dress and to take it off and look for them. 'I'm sure they are there. Good luck, " she said. I took off the dress and spent an hour with the other people in the room looking for loops or hooks inside the dress. We never found them. I checked the back of my David's Bridal receipt. I was charged $35 for the bustle, but there was nothing marked down on the alteration sheet on the back! I was out of time, so I put on the dress without the bustle and got married, and then took the dress off and missed all of Vegas in my beautiful wedding dress.

Sometime after our honeymoon, I stopped back at David's Bridal in Freehold to see if they could show me the bustle. It was there, but it wasn't anything like what the store manager described to me over the phone when i called panicking from my hotel room in Vegas shortly before my wedding. TAll the bustle was, was a loop directly on the back of the dress. It slipped over one of the buttons from an existing row of buttons that came with the dress. 

OK, if the store manager bothered to look up my account, because I am sure you have on record what kind of bustle I had, and properly described it as a small loop on the back of the dress, instead of describing ever other kind of bustle that I DIDN'T have, I would have been able to find the bustle,  and really have my Vegas wedding the way we planned. 

In fact, The only reason I finally chose the dress and accessories that did, was because I thought I would be walking around in my dress in Vegas.

When I told all this to the manager at the Freehold store, she said that the tailor shouldn't have let me go without showing me the bustle, but she said, "it's your fault because you left the store without knowing how to use the bustle." Then, at that moment, someone helping me with my preservation package asked me for $15 more dollars to preserve my veil. I said no, way, I am not giving you people one more cent. That's when the store manager told me to call corporate. 

You've got to be kidding me. Like i said in the store, first off it's not my fault when I asked about it, and the tailor says no, don't worry about it, take the dress and enjoy. And what about when I called? She didn't even bother to look up my account to tell me what kind of bustle I had to help me. The problem could have been solved there. I could have also been solved when I went back to the store, but this woman told me that it's my fault and offered to refund $35 for my ruined wedding over a dress that I only got to parade around Vegas. 

I don't even want the dress any more and I hate David's Bridal

Oh, and then I call corporate four times and don't have any return calls or messages. 


I'm disputing the charge with my CC company and I am going to complain about this all over the internet. The only reason people go to your store is because David's Bridal offers a store credit card, but you know what, it's not worth it. 

Additionally, I think you should know, my friend and I waited at the register for more than an hour because the store associates weren't trained on register; they were all waiting for the store manager to come up and help them. Half the people in Brick are complaining about this. And one associate with red hair argued with me that i couldnt exchange my tiara even before I left the sales counter lol and no one gave me a box for the preservation kit I bought. I came back with the dress and my receipt asking what I do with it.  Ridiculous!!! 

Re: Do NOT get a dress at David's Briadal

  • AddieCakeAddieCake member
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    edited April 2013
    Sorry this happened to you. Experiences at DB vary from location to location. I had a fantastic experience there and purchased my dress from them. I did use someone else for alterations b/c I had heard they jack up the prices too much. Also, you could have avoided this by insisting they show you how to bustle it when you had it at the store. I don't think I would have just left taking their word that it would be easy to do. 
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  • In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_attire-accessories_do-not-get-a-dress-at-davids-briadal?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:15Discussion:c9b4b431-21bc-4bcd-b73e-88df9d699ba8Post:498cf1ca-9571-473b-a45e-687c6354cffd">Do NOT get a dress at David's Briadal</a>:
    [QUOTE]I traveled to Vegas for my wedding and realized i had a problem with my dress. David's Bridal Corporate will not return my calls or answer my emails. The store manager was rude, she would not help me once I was in Vegas and she blamed me when i came back to the store. 
    Here is the email that I sent them, to which they never responded. I just want everyone to know so you can reconsider ordering from David's Bridal.

     Help, I need customer service. Kristen Ciano   <kristen.ciano@gmail.com /> Apr 2 (7 days ago)   to  DBCares

     Hi,  I have left 4 messages over the past couple weeks at  David 's  Bridal  Corporate Office. No one has called be back!  The store manager at  David 's  Bridal  in Freehold, NJ referred me after I visited the store with a complaint.  I was married on January 16, and got my dress at  David 's  Bridal  in Freehold. I let everyone know that I was getting married in Las Vegas and needed the train on my dress bustled  so that my husband and I could walk around Vegas dressed up in our wedding clothes!

    I had my "second fitting" just a few days before leaving. I asked the tailor -  who was not the person I spoke with the first day -  about the bustle and if i should try it on, and she said, "You don't have to bother putting it back since we didn't do any alterations that would change the length or anything like that. Just take the dress and enjoy!" So I took the dress and I left.  I put it back on for the first time in the hotel a couple hours before the wedding. There was a hole in the back of the dress and couldn't find the bustle.

     Panicking, I called the Freehold store. A rep put on the store manager. She asked if no one showed me the bustle. I said no. She told me it could be hooks or loops inside the dress and to take it off and look for them. 'I'm sure they are there. Good luck, " she said. I took off the dress and spent an hour with the other people in the room looking for loops or hooks inside the dress. We never found them.

    I checked the back of my  David 's  Bridal  receipt. I was charged $35 for the bustle, but there was nothing marked down on the alteration sheet on the back! I was out of time, so I put on the dress without the bustle and got married, and then took the dress off and missed all of Vegas in my beautiful wedding dress.

    Sometime after our honeymoon, I stopped back at  David 's  Bridal  in Freehold to see if they could show me the bustle. It was there, but it wasn't anything like what the store manager described to me over the phone when i called panicking from my hotel room in Vegas shortly before my wedding. TAll the bustle was, was a loop directly on the back of the dress. It slipped over one of the buttons from an existing row of buttons that came with the dress.  OK, if the store manager bothered to look up my account, because I am sure you have on record what kind of bustle I had, and properly described it as a small loop on the back of the dress, instead of describing ever other kind of bustle that I DIDN'T have, I would have been able to find the bustle,  and really have my Vegas wedding the way we planned.  In fact, The only reason I finally chose the dress and accessories that did, was because I thought I would be walking around in my dress in Vegas. When I told all this to the manager at the Freehold store, she said that the tailor shouldn't have let me go without showing me the bustle, but she said, "it's your fault because you left the store without knowing how to use the bustle."

     Then, at that moment, someone helping me with my preservation package asked me for $15 more dollars to preserve my veil. I said no, way, I am not giving you people one more cent. That's when the store manager told me to call corporate. 

    You've got to be kidding me. Like i said in the store, first off it's not my fault when I asked about it, and the tailor says no, don't worry about it, take the dress and enjoy. And what about when I called? She didn't even bother to look up my account to tell me what kind of bustle I had to help me.
    The problem could have been solved there. I could have also been solved when I went back to the store, but this woman told me that it's my fault and offered to refund $35 for my ruined wedding over a dress that I only got to parade around Vegas.  I don't even want the dress any more and I hate  David 's  Bridal . 

    Oh, and then I call corporate four times and don't have any return calls or messages.  I'm disputing the charge with my CC company and I am going to complain about this all over the internet. The only reason people go to your store is because  David 's  Bridal  offers a store credit card, but you know what, it's not worth it.  Additionally, I think you should know, my friend and I waited at the register for more than an hour because the store associates weren't trained on register; they were all waiting for the store manager to come up and help them. Half the people in Brick are complaining about this. And one associate with red hair argued with me that i couldnt exchange my tiara even before I left the sales counter lol and no one gave me a box for the preservation kit I bought. I came back with the dress and my receipt asking what I do with it.  Ridiculous!!! 
    Posted by KristenG325[/QUOTE]

    I copied it because your formatting was funky from C&Ping it into here.

    I'm sorry about your experience.
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    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_attire-accessories_do-not-get-a-dress-at-davids-briadal?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:15Discussion:c9b4b431-21bc-4bcd-b73e-88df9d699ba8Post:498cf1ca-9571-473b-a45e-687c6354cffd">Do NOT get a dress at David's Briadal</a>:
    [QUOTE]I traveled to Vegas for my wedding and realized i had a problem with my dress. David's Bridal Corporate will not return my calls or answer my emails. The store manager was rude, she would not help me once I was in Vegas and she blamed me when i came back to the store.  Here is the email that I sent them, to which they never responded. I just want everyone to know so you can reconsider ordering from David's Bridal. Help, I need customer service. Kristen Ciano   <kristen.ciano@gmail.com /> Apr 2 (7 days ago)   to  DBCares Hi,  I have left 4 messages over the past couple weeks at  David 's  Bridal  Corporate Office. No one has called be back!  The store manager at  David 's  Bridal  in Freehold, NJ referred me after I visited the store with a complaint.  I was married on January 16, and got my dress at  David 's  Bridal  in Freehold. I let everyone know that I was getting married in Las Vegas and needed the train on my dress bustled  so that my husband and I could walk around Vegas dressed up in our wedding clothes! I had my "second fitting" just a few days before leaving. I asked the tailor -  who was not the person I spoke with the first day -  about the bustle and if i should try it on, and she said, "You don't have to bother putting it back since we didn't do any alterations that would change the length or anything like that. Just take the dress and enjoy!" So I took the dress and I left.  I put it back on for the first time in the hotel a couple hours before the wedding.<strong> </strong>There was a hole in the back of the dress and couldn't find the bustle. Panicking, I called the Freehold store. A rep put on the store manager. She asked if no one showed me the bustle. I said no. She told me it could be hooks or loops inside the dress and to take it off and look for them. 'I'm sure they are there. Good luck, " she said. I took off the dress and spent an hour with the other people in the room looking for loops or hooks inside the dress. We never found them. I checked the back of my  David 's  Bridal  receipt. I was charged $35 for the bustle, but there was nothing marked down on the alteration sheet on the back! I was out of time, so I put on the dress without the bustle and got married, and then took the dress off and missed all of Vegas in my beautiful wedding dress. Sometime after our honeymoon, I stopped back at  David 's  Bridal  in Freehold to see if they could show me the bustle. It was there, but it wasn't anything like what the store manager described to me over the phone when i called panicking from my hotel room in Vegas shortly before my wedding. TAll the bustle was, was a loop directly on the back of the dress. It slipped over one of the buttons from an existing row of buttons that came with the dress.  OK, if the store manager bothered to look up my account, because I am sure you have on record what kind of bustle I had, and properly described it as a small loop on the back of the dress, instead of describing ever other kind of bustle that I DIDN'T have, I would have been able to find the bustle,  and really have my Vegas wedding the way we planned.  In fact, The only reason I finally chose the dress and accessories that did, was because I thought I would be walking around in my dress in Vegas. When I told all this to the manager at the Freehold store, she said that the tailor shouldn't have let me go without showing me the bustle, but she said, "it's your fault because you left the store without knowing how to use the bustle." Then, at that moment, someone helping me with my preservation package asked me for $15 more dollars to preserve my veil. I said no, way, I am not giving you people one more cent. That's when the store manager told me to call corporate.  You've got to be kidding me. Like i said in the store, first off it's not my fault when I asked about it, and the tailor says no, don't worry about it, take the dress and enjoy. And what about when I called? She didn't even bother to look up my account to tell me what kind of bustle I had to help me. The problem could have been solved there. I could have also been solved when I went back to the store, but this woman told me that it's my fault and offered to refund $35 for my ruined wedding over a dress that I only got to parade around Vegas.  I don't even want the dress any more and I hate  David 's  Bridal .  Oh, and then I call corporate four times and don't have any return calls or messages.  I'm disputing the charge with my CC company and I am going to complain about this all over the internet. The only reason people go to your store is because  David 's  Bridal  offers a store credit card, but you know what, it's not worth it.  Additionally, I think you should know, my friend and I waited at the register for more than an hour because the store associates weren't trained on register; they were all waiting for the store manager to come up and help them. Half the people in Brick are complaining about this. And one associate with red hair argued with me that i couldnt exchange my tiara even before I left the sales counter lol and no one gave me a box for the preservation kit I bought. I came back with the dress and my receipt asking what I do with it.  Ridiculous!!! 
    Posted by KristenG325[/QUOTE]


    I had a great experience with all 3 DB I dealt with.  Unfortunately, like any other franchised business, customer service can vary greatly from one store to another. 

    If the seamstress really did try and blow you off, you should've demanded they show you how to work the bustle.  At a very minimum, you should've tried it on before you left for Vegas. 

    What exactly are you disputing with your credit card company?  Sounds as if they provided the service they charged you for.  You said yourself, the bustle <em>was</em> there you just didn't know how to do it. 
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  • B2Z728B2Z728 member
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    I answered you over on the NJ (btw, you should write XP for a cross/double post). 

    Copy and paste of my original response:

    I am sorry this happened to you, but I see the store managers point about leaving the store without knowing how to do your bustle. I personally would have insisted, regardless of what your seamstress said, to be showed how to do it. I would not have left the store until then. When I had my alterations done, I brought two people with me to be shown how to bustle my dress, just incase one of them forgot how it was supposed to be done. 
    I also think it's a very bold statement to say that they "ruined your wedding" because you could not "parade around Vegas" in your wedding dress after your wedding had taken place. As you said, the ceremony took place, you and your husband are married. Sounds like the wedding was a success. Can I say that mother nature ruined my wedding because I couldn't get married outside like I had planned to? No, of course not. We had a lovely wedding inside instead. If it had poured rain on your wedding day, causing you not to be able to walk around Vegas in your wedding dress, would you still use the same wording that David's Bridal ruined your wedding? 

    I understand that it really stinks when your wedding doesn't go as planned, and like I said, I'm sorry that happened. But I also completely understand why you have not gotten any response to your email from David's Bridal corporate.

    ETA: I also just noticed that you posted the exact same thing on THREE different boards (NJ, here on A&A, and on Wedding Woes). It really seems like you're trying to get validation or response that you'd be happy with.  
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  • wittykitty14wittykitty14 member
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    Sorry this happened.  It's hard when things don't turn out like you hoped, especially for something as important as a wedding.  I would be frustrated too.

    I'm not surprised DB hasn't responded to you, or that the NJ store was rude to you.  If this is how you've been communicating with them, no one in the business world will take you seriously.  You could have gotten your point across without the exclamation points.  They're not necessary for showing frustration.  Also, it seems like you just sent a complaint.  You asked no questions, and did not give any indication of action other than CC dispute (why that?).  While it's nice to be validated, you didn't set them up to have anything to respond to.

    It's a bummer that the seamstress blew you off about your bustle.  However, please take a little bit of ownership in the fact that you just left it at that and hoped for the best.  I'm sorry that they didn't explain the bustle properly when you called, because it sounds like that would have solved the whole problem.  Reading your story, that's the part I empathize with the most.  That part truly is their fault.

    Did your wedding happen?  Yes.  Are you happily married? Yes.  Your wedding was not ruined.  Assuming I read this correctly, you didn't have any dress problems during the ceremony, which is good!  Your wedding wasn't ruined just because you couldn't go galavanting with your dress afterwards. You can blame DB all you want, but I think it's not completely justified.  We all want everything to go smoothly, but the only thing (IMHO) that ruins wedding is when one doesn't happen.

    My apologies if this sounds blunt or harsh.  It's not really my style.  But I had to be direct with this one.  There's nothing you can really do about the dress now, so I suggest moving on.  It wasn't what you hoped for, but you're still married!  Congratulations, and I wish you and your H a happy life together!
  • As a Vegas bride myself I can sympathize with you about being bummed you couldn't wear your dress out but I agree with PP's.

    What caused you to not look at your bustle and figure it out on your own at any point before your wedding day? My bustle was the single most important thing I had done to my dress and I made the seamstress (at David's) show it to me twice, recorded it on my phone, and practiced myself when I got the dress home just to be sure.
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  • there are 2 davids bridals in las vegas you could have gotten in your dress hailed a cab and had the las vegas store help you with the bustel i know i will make sure my sister knows excatly where my bustle is 
  • David's Bridal is not responsible for your lack of bustle knowledge.  Saying that they ruined the wedding because you didn't bother to learn how to bustle your own dress is over the top.

    Demanding your money back for a service they provided correctly goes from 'over the top' and leaves orbit.
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