I've written about a friend whose WP I was in last year, and for her photos, we went to an absolutely fabulous location. It was my dream photography location for pretty much any type of photo shoot. Our photographer thinks he knows where it's located, but I wanted to confirm with my friend. So, I texted her about this. Her reply: "I'm going to be totally selfish here and say I'd rather not say". How the heck do I respond to that? She said that her photos were the only thing she gave a crap about and she wasn't going to help anyone copy her. I'm now on a mission, and talked to our photographer tonight! He's going to look into this tomorrow and let me know. How would you respond to this? I should also say that this is the friend who bad mouthed me while she was planning her wedding. I've written about her on one of the other boards.