Wedding Woes

Confession: I have a petty thing

When I was in college, there was this girl, M.  Now, I was jealous of her b/c she was the cute, spritely, thin, pretty, quirky girl with the great soprano voice that I wanted to be.  I also really like her boyfriend (in a friend manner, not to date) and she made him stop hanging out with me.   I also really disliked her b/c she was the super judgmental religious person this area is good at producing.  My most favorite moment of loathing her is when we were all at a musical theatre party and she said she didn't masturbate, b/c it wasn't godly and it was gross and she was laughed down.

I swear, she has been in every area folk/bluegrass band I've really liked (which just makes me more jealous).  Throughout the years, we've always been on each others peripheral circles of friends.  Now, she's in a band that is playing on this big bike/band ride I'm in over Memorial Day weekend.

I made a playilst to listen to the music of all the bands on the trail.  I'm terrified I'm going to like her band.  And it'll make me mad and jealous all over again.

Sometimes, I don't think I've matured one little bit past 22.

ETA:  Stupid spelling.


Re: Confession: I have a petty thing

  • Heee!  This reminds me a bit of a woman I knew in college.  I'm FB friends with her and still roll my eyes at almost every post even though I know there isn't actually anything that irritating about her that she hasn't grown out of by now. 
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  • GBCKGBCK member
    Knottie Warrior 5000 Comments 500 Love Its Name Dropper
    edited April 2013
    Based on this, I just googled to see if a musician I went to college with has a nice life.

    He apparently does.  and apparently still sells a decent amount of Christian praise music.
    I don't hate him for that, but I do always kinda glare and thing that he's to nice/his life is to perfect to be real.
  • Haters gonna hate!
  • Man I don't think you should feel too bad about this. I think the fact that you are aware enough about the "pettyness" of your feelings towards her makes you pretty mature and selfaware. Besdies, there are always these kind of people that just sort of rub you the wrong way without any (real) reason.
  • 6fsn6fsn member
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    Nothing wrong with being 22.  It's better than 12.
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