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David's Bridal in Freehold, NJ Ruined My Wedding

I traveled to Vegas for my wedding and realized i had a problem with my dress. David's Bridal Corporate will not return my calls or answer my emails. The store manager was rude, she would not help me once I was in Vegas and she blamed me when i came back to the store. 

Here is the email that I sent them, to which they never responded. I just want everyone to know so you can reconsider ordering from David's Bridal.

Help, I need customer service.

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Apr 2 (7 days ago)
 
to DBCares
Hi, 

I have left 4 messages over the past couple weeks at David's Bridal Corporate Office. No one has called be back! 

The store manager at David's Bridal in Freehold, NJ referred me after I visited the store with a complaint. 

I was married on January 16, and got my dress at David's Bridal in Freehold. I let everyone know that I was getting married in Las Vegas and needed the train on my dress bustled  so that my husband and I could walk around Vegas dressed up in our wedding clothes! I had my "second fitting" just a few days before leaving. I asked the tailor -  who was not the person I spoke with the first day -  about the bustle and if i should try it on, and she said, "You don't have to bother putting it back since we didn't do any alterations that would change the length or anything like that. Just take the dress and enjoy!" So I took the dress and I left.

 I put it back on for the first time in the hotel a couple hours before the wedding. There was a hole in the back of the dress and couldn't find the bustle. Panicking, I called the Freehold store. A rep put on the store manager. She asked if no one showed me the bustle. I said no. She told me it could be hooks or loops inside the dress and to take it off and look for them. 'I'm sure they are there. Good luck, " she said. I took off the dress and spent an hour with the other people in the room looking for loops or hooks inside the dress. We never found them. I checked the back of my David's Bridal receipt. I was charged $35 for the bustle, but there was nothing marked down on the alteration sheet on the back! I was out of time, so I put on the dress without the bustle and got married, and then took the dress off and missed all of Vegas in my beautiful wedding dress.

Sometime after our honeymoon, I stopped back at David's Bridal in Freehold to see if they could show me the bustle. It was there, but it wasn't anything like what the store manager described to me over the phone when i called panicking from my hotel room in Vegas shortly before my wedding. TAll the bustle was, was a loop directly on the back of the dress. It slipped over one of the buttons from an existing row of buttons that came with the dress. 

OK, if the store manager bothered to look up my account, because I am sure you have on record what kind of bustle I had, and properly described it as a small loop on the back of the dress, instead of describing ever other kind of bustle that I DIDN'T have, I would have been able to find the bustle,  and really have my Vegas wedding the way we planned. 

In fact, The only reason I finally chose the dress and accessories that did, was because I thought I would be walking around in my dress in Vegas.

When I told all this to the manager at the Freehold store, she said that the tailor shouldn't have let me go without showing me the bustle, but she said, "it's your fault because you left the store without knowing how to use the bustle." Then, at that moment, someone helping me with my preservation package asked me for $15 more dollars to preserve my veil. I said no, way, I am not giving you people one more cent. That's when the store manager told me to call corporate. 

You've got to be kidding me. Like i said in the store, first off it's not my fault when I asked about it, and the tailor says no, don't worry about it, take the dress and enjoy. And what about when I called? She didn't even bother to look up my account to tell me what kind of bustle I had to help me. The problem could have been solved there. I could have also been solved when I went back to the store, but this woman told me that it's my fault and offered to refund $35 for my ruined wedding over a dress that I only got to parade around Vegas. 

I don't even want the dress any more and I hate David's Bridal

Oh, and then I call corporate four times and don't have any return calls or messages. 


I'm disputing the charge with my CC company and I am going to complain about this all over the internet. The only reason people go to your store is because David's Bridal offers a store credit card, but you know what, it's not worth it. 

Additionally, I think you should know, my friend and I waited at the register for more than an hour because the store associates weren't trained on register; they were all waiting for the store manager to come up and help them. Half the people in Brick are complaining about this. And one associate with red hair argued with me that i couldnt exchange my tiara even before I left the sales counter lol and no one gave me a box for the preservation kit I bought. I came back with the dress and my receipt asking what I do with it

Re: David&#039;s Bridal in Freehold, NJ Ruined My Wedding

  • edited April 2013
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  • FYI, you probably don't want to put your full name and your email address out on the internet like this.
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    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_wedding-woes_davids-bridal-in-freehold-nj-ruined-my-wedding?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:47Discussion:25bdb85e-460b-4370-8904-fabf05e69b0dPost:ea73aaa8-c6f4-4482-a0d1-81a85f5b981e">David's Bridal in Freehold, NJ Ruined My Wedding</a>:
    [QUOTE]I traveled to Vegas for my wedding and realized i had a problem with my dress. David's Bridal Corporate will not return my calls or answer my emails. The store manager was rude, she would not help me once I was in Vegas and she blamed me when i came back to the store.  Here is the email that I sent them, to which they never responded. I just want everyone to know so you can reconsider ordering from David's Bridal. Help, I need customer service.  Apr 2 (7 days ago)   to  DBCares Hi,  I have left 4 messages over the past couple weeks at  David 's  Bridal  Corporate Office. No one has called be back!  The store manager at  David 's  Bridal  in Freehold, NJ referred me after I visited the store with a complaint.  I was married on January 16, and got my dress at  David 's  Bridal  in Freehold. I let everyone know that I was getting married in Las Vegas and needed the train on my dress bustled  so that my husband and I could walk around Vegas dressed up in our wedding clothes! I had my "second fitting" just a few days before leaving. I asked the tailor -  who was not the person I spoke with the first day -  about the bustle and if i should try it on, and she said, "You don't have to bother putting it back since we didn't do any alterations that would change the length or anything like that. Just take the dress and enjoy!" So I took the dress and I left.  I put it back on for the first time in the hotel a couple hours before the wedding. There was a hole in the back of the dress and couldn't find the bustle. Panicking, I called the Freehold store. A rep put on the store manager. She asked if no one showed me the bustle. I said no. She told me it could be hooks or loops inside the dress and to take it off and look for them. 'I'm sure they are there. Good luck, " she said. I took off the dress and spent an hour with the other people in the room looking for loops or hooks inside the dress. We never found them. I checked the back of my  David 's  Bridal  receipt. I was charged $35 for the bustle, but there was nothing marked down on the alteration sheet on the back! I was out of time, so I put on the dress without the bustle and got married, and then took the dress off and missed all of Vegas in my beautiful wedding dress. Sometime after our honeymoon, I stopped back at  David 's  Bridal  in Freehold to see if they could show me the bustle. It was there, but it wasn't anything like what the store manager described to me over the phone when i called panicking from my hotel room in Vegas shortly before my wedding. TAll the bustle was, was a loop directly on the back of the dress. It slipped over one of the buttons from an existing row of buttons that came with the dress.  OK, if the store manager bothered to look up my account, because I am sure you have on record what kind of bustle I had, and properly described it as a small loop on the back of the dress, instead of describing ever other kind of bustle that I DIDN'T have, I would have been able to find the bustle,  and really have my Vegas wedding the way we planned.  In fact, The only reason I finally chose the dress and accessories that did, was because I thought I would be walking around in my dress in Vegas. When I told all this to the manager at the Freehold store, she said that the tailor shouldn't have let me go without showing me the bustle, but she said, "it's your fault because you left the store without knowing how to use the bustle." Then, at that moment, someone helping me with my preservation package asked me for $15 more dollars to preserve my veil. I said no, way, I am not giving you people one more cent. That's when the store manager told me to call corporate.  You've got to be kidding me. Like i said in the store, first off it's not my fault when I asked about it, and the tailor says no, don't worry about it, take the dress and enjoy. And what about when I called? She didn't even bother to look up my account to tell me what kind of bustle I had to help me. The problem could have been solved there. I could have also been solved when I went back to the store, but this woman told me that it's my fault and offered to refund $35 for my ruined wedding over a dress that I only got to parade around Vegas.  I don't even want the dress any more and I hate  David 's  Bridal .  Oh, and then I call corporate four times and don't have any return calls or messages.  I'm disputing the charge with my CC company and I am going to complain about this all over the internet. The only reason people go to your store is because  David 's  Bridal  offers a store credit card, but you know what, it's not worth it.  Additionally, I think you should know, my friend and I waited at the register for more than an hour because the store associates weren't trained on register; they were all waiting for the store manager to come up and help them. Half the people in Brick are complaining about this. And one associate with red hair argued with me that i couldnt exchange my tiara even before I left the sales counter lol and no one gave me a box for the preservation kit I bought. I came back with the dress and my receipt asking what I do with it
    Posted by KristenG325[/QUOTE]

    <div>All I can think about is how disgustingly dirty your dress would have been after walking around Vegas in it.  Bustle or no bustle.   My bustled dress was filthy after my ballroom wedding reception.</div><div>I think you are way over reacting.   </div>
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    edited April 2013
    Wait, so when the tailor told you there wasn't a bustle (which is what, " you don't have to put it back" would mean to me), you didn't ask about paying for and not receiving a bustle?  Then, you looked for it after being told you didn't have one?

    This all seems very bizarre.  And you wore the dress, so I'm not sure why you think you should get your money back over a misunderstanding of the bustle.  FWIW, I don't know one friend who didn't break their bustle by the end of the night (including myself) and we all managed to just walk around with the dress slung over our arm.

    I don't think DB is right andI don't think you're right either.  Let it go.  
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    [QUOTE]FYI, you probably don't want to put your full name and your email address out on the internet like this.
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    Um, this.  I would delete this ASAP, OP.
  • Really?  A bustle problem RUINED your wedding?  Really?  That kind of sucks for your new spouse.  Most people don't let a bustle problem RUIN one of the biggest days of their life.  So here he is all happy to be married to you and crap like that and you are still crying over your bustle.  Dealing with imperfection in a handy life skill.  I suggest you give it a try.


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    [QUOTE]Really?  A bustle problem RUINED your wedding?  Really?  That kind of sucks for your new spouse.  Most people don't let a bustle problem RUIN one of the biggest days of their life.  So here he is all happy to be married to you and crap like that and you are still crying over your bustle.  Dealing with imperfection in a handy life skill.  I suggest you give it a try. ::summons WZ and the headless flower girl story::
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  • Wow... can we say BRIDEZILLA?? Not trying to be insensitive, but... GET OVER IT!
  • I just happened to notice that she wanted a tiara.  It struck me as significant.
  • I deleted the email and name.

    but I can't help but notice that the OP was married January 16th, and she hasn't let it go! I think it's a bit crazy to have called a store in NJ from VEGAS to find the bustle in a dress that someone at the hotel could have looked for.

    They owe you $35 for the bustle, that's it IMO. I can't believe a CC would actually allow you to dispute the cost of the entire dress, considering your issue with with a $35 charge.

    I think the OP ruined her own wedding, and a good part of 2013.
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    (i think it is hilarious that corporate is not returning your calls. HILARIOUS. i wouldn't return them, either.)

    before i forget:

    I once saw on Oprah that this wedding party was hit by a drunk driver on the way from a wedding and the brides niece was decapitated and her head landed in her mothers lap. She picked it up and cradled it along the highway. That is pretty horrific. 
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