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Knottie_22902870

Deleted this post because everyone was so negative...

smalfrie19

why did you post this on multiple boards? You are going to get the same answer. You dont get a do over. People around here are not fond of PPD's. 

Knottie_22902870

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_wedding-woes_i-am-in-desperate-need-of-some-smart-ladies-help?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:47Discussion:36ff1267-a022-46b8-86ce-2d454740b794Post:fd204165-5e93-4074-bc6f-d7514c42f2df">Re: I am in desperate need of some smart ladies help</a>:
[QUOTE]why did you post this on multiple boards? You are going to get the same answer. You dont get a do over. People around here are not fond of PPD's. 
Posted by smalfrie19[/QUOTE]
Once again, rude. Don't reply if you don't have anything good to say. All I'm doing is trying to find an answer so please, do me a favor and stop being so negative.

smalfrie19

If you don't want to hear what strangers have to offer, then don't put it out there. I got reamed as a new Knottie because I didnt lurk. Maybe you should have before posting. It's not being rude, being rude would be calling you names or saying you are stupid, which I am not. I am just advising about the kind of atmosphere you have entered into and how most of the regulars take the kind of "suggestions" your are looking for. 

GBCK

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[QUOTE]Deleted this post because everyone was so negative...
Posted by cvaughn09[/QUOTE]
You accidentally dropped something.

Okay, so, long story short, my husband unexpectedly had to leave the military for mental health reasons. It took us all by surprise and had us up and leaving the home he had purchased next to base, which ended up having to be forecloesd on, since my husband could not find a job right out of the military. I was currently still a student living in the dorms so, the only place he could turn to was living with me there while we figured out a plan. We never had a wedding. We couldn't afford it and neither could our parents. We got married not only because we loved each other but, to also help me pay for my schooling since my options for paying for school were running out. My husband told me he would do anything in his power to make sure I could have an education. Then the worst happened. My husband had gone through a fairly invasive surgery that sent him into the worst pain pill addiction I had ever seen. We spent years trying to get around it and trying to make him sober. We lost our home, lost our car and any money that we had was gone. We finally had to move in with my parents, them not fully understanding the hardships we had gone through. I was only able to work at a part time, minimum wage paying job, and my husband was working unconsistent jobs, barely making any money. We were lucky to pay rent every month and get by on eating food we could barely afford. After a year now, my husband is 6 months sober now and we have finally gotten to a point where we both have a car to use! But, I still haven't had the wedding I have so badly wished I could have. I was supposed to have a wedding in November of 2012 but, before I could send out invites, my parents had to cancel since they had no money to put into the wedding. I was heart broken. So, now I am doomed to dreaming and thinking "what if?" I have my dream wedding dress, a great photographer who will do it for free, a lovely music group who would love to do it for free and friends that are behind me 100%. I just need to spot, the venue to have this wedding. Nothing fancy, just an outdoor wedding to celebrate this love I share with my husband and to celebrate that we have persevered so far  because  we loved each other.  Can anyone help me and tell me where I can turn? I don't have a lot of money but, I'm willing to do what I can to get my wedding since no one else will help me. I would appreciate any and ALL help and suggestions! Thanks so much.
Posted by cvaughn09

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