I was raised by my Step-dad all my life and my Real dad was in my life but wasn't aloud to be in a leading role. Early in my life I was told my real dad was my uncle..I was in second grade when I found out who he truly was. Since then he and I have been working on our relationship, we have had our ups and downs but have gotten closer throughout the years and now are close. Now let me add I am very very close to my Step-dad..He is my rock, he has brought me up and taught me everything I know. Now that I am engaged and planning a wedding i am torn about how much I should involve my real dad. He has offered to help pay for alot and i feel horrible taking his money and not having him feel special in some way. But my Step-dad and mom are flipping out, they do not want him there or him to have any special things. I want each Dad to feel equal and just to have fun. How can I involve him without the drama? Any Advice? Thanks!