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unwanted guest

mld3333mld3333 member
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I have a guest thati knew from highschool. She was good friends with my sister and i was not as close. I went to her wedding a few years ago. i have sent her a save the date but since have had her to some group functions with people of all ages. She has always been a little loud and outspoken but is now on alot of meds and overshares and is really obnoxious. The only pearson at the wedding she will know will be my sister which will be at the head table. Normally i would just suck it up and invite her but i have gotten alot of feedback from people that they cant stand her and she is really inapropriate. Do i disinvite her and say i have to cut my guest list or do i subject my other guests to her unpleasantness. Im not 100 persent afraid to lose her as a friend cause i was never close to her. More just felt obligated because i went to her wedding and she is my sisters friend. But even my sister is rethinking inviting her to shower and other group stuff for the wedding. Any thoughts

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  • hmonkeyhmonkey member
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    too late, you already invited her.

    the only thing you can do is send her an invite with the wrong date and time. 
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  • LnR70707LnR70707 member
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    ::snort:: @ Hmo

    You are stuck since you sent the STD, but I don't see any reason to invite her to any other wedding related events.
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  • AddieCakeAddieCake member
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    It would be rude not to invite her to the wedding, but you don't need to invite her to the other things. 
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  • makemommakemom member
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    You'll need to invite her. It might mean the world to her. 

    You could also find the right relative (an aunt or uncle) who is very good at handling things, and explain to them your concern about this guest, just so they can keep an eye on her, and steer her away from ruining anything. 


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  • Duffy27Duffy27 member
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    Unfortunately you do have to invite her. Since your sister is good friends with her maybe see if she would be willing to sit down and talk to her about apropriate wedding etiquette. Also its a good idea to designate someone to keep an eye on her. Who knows maybe she won't come since she won't know anyone but your sister! Think on the positive side Laughing
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  • mld3333mld3333 member
    Second Anniversary First Comment
    Thank you this is very helpful.

    In Response to Re: unwanted guest:
    [QUOTE]You'll need to invite her. It might mean the world to her.  You could also find the right relative (an aunt or uncle) who is very good at handling things, and explain to them your concern about this guest, just so they can keep an eye on her, and steer her away from ruining anything. 
    Posted by makemom[/QUOTE]
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