Wedding Woes

WDYT

the title says it all.

(ETA - I originally titled this 'wwyd', but that's not a can of worms i was trying to open.)

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Re: WDYT

  • Range of emotions I would feel:

    CrySurprisedCrySurprisedYellCryCryCry

    No idea what I'd actually DO.
  • ::the bitter infertile shakes her head::

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    I just a friendly gal looking for options.

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  • Heart attack.
  • i wouldn't have:
    1) moved in with a guy within 2 weeks of meeting him
    2) started sleeping with him within 6 weeks
    3) had sex with someone without at least 2 different forms of BC if i wasn't interested in getting KU. 

    if i somehow lost my mind and let all of that ^^ happen, i'd probably have given the kids up for adoption. 
  • DG1DG1 member
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    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_wedding-woes_wwyd-50?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:47Discussion:ab60e5c5-4cf7-4cdc-8a04-129bfbdaf36dPost:bc10461e-d30e-4233-90eb-1f7bdd64e012">Re: WDYT</a>:
    [QUOTE]i wouldn't have: 1) moved in with a guy within 2 weeks of meeting him 2) started sleeping with him within 6 weeks 3) had sex with someone without at least 2 different forms of BC if i wasn't interested in getting KU.  if i somehow lost my mind and let all of that ^^ happen, i'd probably have given the kids up for adoption. 
    Posted by *Barbie*[/QUOTE]<div>
    </div><div>I'm with you on the moving in, but not sleeping with him within 6 weeks? Really? I think it was 3 or 4 weeks before I slept with H, but that was only because I went home for Christmas for a week between our 2nd and third date.</div><div>
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  • Yeah, we got it on 3 weeks in, and in all honesty, had we gotten KU then, we;d have stayed together. We were both already thinking this was it at that point.
  • WzzWzz member
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    the 6 weeks doesn't bother me. if you actually have a timeline that you have always followed, then kudos. but to have unprotected sex after knowing someone for only 6 weeks is a risky move.
  • i might not hold to the timeline as much if i was still single at this point (i'll be 30 in june) - but i was 21 when DK and i started dating and 23 when we got married. 

    i made it a habit not to sleep with guys unless i considered it an actual relationship - and in my late teens/early 20s, i probably wouldn't have felt that way 6 weeks in. I think it took us 2-3 months - and even then it was 2+ methods of BC at all times. 

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