Hey yall. I got officially engaged last year (at 20) to my boyfriend of 2.5 years. Our wedding won't be till next year (I'm getting my bachelors & a steady job first) in October. When we decided to tell everyone we were getting married I thought my mom would be excited. I was thinking there would be planning, talks of flowers, dresses, etc. But instead there is just...nothing. She didn't act excited. She didn't really act mad. Just...nothing.
It kinda hurt my feelings and made me worry that she isn't happy or doesn't want part in this. Every time I try to talk about the wedding she either ends up getting annoyed or changes the subject completely. Me and my FH are paying for the wedding (yes we actually have $ put back) so it's not like she has to pay for anything except a MOB dress. I've tried talking to her about it and she denies being unhappy about it & claims she's excited. But I know better.
Did anyone else experience this? Any idea what's going on?
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