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Re: Getting married...while going thru a divorce update

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    Glad it worked out.
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    Oh I remember that post: LINK

    I am glad that you can get married on time without lying to your guests.

    Please come back and share photos for sure!!
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    glad it worked out for you. And I still think it was dumb for you to plan a wedding and put down deposits, etc. before you even initiated your divorce. but anyway.....
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    No no no no!  Don't scare her away. I want this one to stay.

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    Mostly I'm amazed that this was actually real.  Still such a dumb idea that I really thought it was fake.
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    If she's real, she's  the most entertaining poster I've ever seen. I want to hear all about the wedding. I want to GO to the wedding. I'm so excited for her!
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    You'll never be subject to a cash bar, gap, potluck wedding, or b-list if you marry a Muppet Overlord.

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    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_getting-marriedwhile-going-thru-a-divorce-update?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:9Discussion:f4bf0ddb-cd0e-4f17-9e12-6b602a81094fPost:1f38f331-245c-442a-97f2-2a7313633dd4">Re: Getting married...while going thru a divorce update</a>:
    [QUOTE]If she's real, she's  the most entertaining poster I've ever seen. I want to hear all about the wedding. I want to GO to the wedding. I'm so excited for her!
    Posted by MuppetFan[/QUOTE]

    excited for her?  or excited to hear the next round of drama that will inevitably come next?
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    Muppetfan..I love that I can be entertaining for you..that's funny..with your childish ass. With a name like Muppetfan I guess you would be a childish person.
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    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_getting-marriedwhile-going-thru-a-divorce-update?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:f4bf0ddb-cd0e-4f17-9e12-6b602a81094fPost:8e0ddb58-4362-4719-88ae-90908f2bac79">Re: Getting married...while going thru a divorce update</a>:
    [QUOTE]glad it worked out for you. And I still think it was dumb for you to plan a wedding and put down deposits, etc. before you even initiated your divorce. but anyway.....
    Posted by cmgilpin[/QUOTE]

    Ditto this.
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    There is no more drama to come as me and my soon to be exhusband has already begun to move on with our lives. Maybe because you girls would create drama if your husbands left you and gave him a hassel doesn't mean I would. Like I said before, there is nothing fake about my situation. I came here thinking I could express my situation and get some sort of advice but more so I have to stoop to your level and be ignorant alonh with you !
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    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_getting-marriedwhile-going-thru-a-divorce-update?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:9Discussion:f4bf0ddb-cd0e-4f17-9e12-6b602a81094fPost:8eef761f-f505-4b50-870b-17afea27cbb2">Re:Getting married...while going thru a divorce update</a>:
    [QUOTE]There is no more drama to come as me and my soon to be exhusband has already begun to move on with our lives. Maybe because you girls would create drama if your husbands left you and gave him a hassel doesn't mean I would.

    Like I said before, there is nothing fake about my situation.

    I came here thinking I could express my situation and get some sort of advice but more so I have to stoop to your level and be ignorant alonh with you !
    Posted by 1bmw35[/QUOTE]



    Then why did you bother to one back to give us an update?
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    MuppetFanMuppetFan member
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    edited April 2013
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_getting-marriedwhile-going-thru-a-divorce-update?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:f4bf0ddb-cd0e-4f17-9e12-6b602a81094fPost:570dbe3e-7e28-46c6-9d45-2038e72fd3fa">Re: Getting married...while going thru a divorce update</a>:
    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: Getting married...while going thru a divorce update : excited for her?  or excited to hear the next round of drama that will inevitably come next?
    Posted by cmgilpin[/QUOTE]

    Well, one leads to another.
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    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_getting-marriedwhile-going-thru-a-divorce-update?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:f4bf0ddb-cd0e-4f17-9e12-6b602a81094fPost:bd7d874f-5dae-401e-b308-68fa005192ed">Re:Getting married...while going thru a divorce update</a>:
    [QUOTE]Muppetfan..I love that I can be entertaining for you..that's funny..with your childish ass. With a name like Muppetfan I guess you would be a childish person.
    Posted by 1bmw35[/QUOTE]

    But I'm the only one that was supportive of you on your previous post!


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    Planning a wedding while still married to somebody else =/= "drama."  Planning a wedding while married to somebody else = foolish.  So foolish, in fact, that most of us thought it was fake - because surely no real person is actually that clueless? 

    Even though it worked out for you, it was still one of the worst ideas I've ever heard on the knot.  Waaaaay worse than planning the honeymoon or wedding you can't afford, and that's one of the worst out there - because it means you start your marriage in debt.  What you were risking meant that you couldn't start your marriage at all.  

    The only way you could possibly think this was a good idea is if you have such blind faith that "it will all work out in life" that you never considered what would happen if it didn't - at least not until you almost hit your deadline.  You might want to change this approach if you want to do things like pay for a child's college education one day or, you know, retire and NOT be in the extra crappy nursing home.  Just saying.  Things like that take at least a little forethought and planning.
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    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_getting-marriedwhile-going-thru-a-divorce-update?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:f4bf0ddb-cd0e-4f17-9e12-6b602a81094fPost:bd7d874f-5dae-401e-b308-68fa005192ed">Re:Getting married...while going thru a divorce update</a>:
    [QUOTE]Muppetfan..I love that I can be entertaining for you..that's funny..with your childish ass. With a name like Muppetfan I guess you would be a childish person.
    Posted by 1bmw35[/QUOTE]

    <div>You do realize that's a personal attack and could get you banned, right?</div><div>
    </div><div>I was going to add a funny gif but I'm lazy and couldn't find a good one.</div>
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    I am not a snarky person.

    I haven't started any drama. Her threads have done that for her.

    All of my posts on this thread are positive.

    I genuinely am excited about the possibilities of this person staying on TK. I read her first post 3 times.
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    You'll never be subject to a cash bar, gap, potluck wedding, or b-list if you marry a Muppet Overlord.

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    I'm with muppet, I like it when the crazies come out to play. 
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    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_getting-marriedwhile-going-thru-a-divorce-update?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:f4bf0ddb-cd0e-4f17-9e12-6b602a81094fPost:780bb1c5-a621-42a0-828e-83b505c7e17e">Re: Getting married...while going thru a divorce update</a>:
    [QUOTE]Oh I remember that post: LINK I am glad that you can get married on time without lying to your guests. Please come back and share photos for sure!!
    Posted by MuppetFan[/QUOTE]

    <div>Oh thank you thank you for linking this. I missed it the first time...fantastic. </div>
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    I'm glad things worked out for you 1bmw35! Yay for real weddings :)
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    Married as of June 22, 2013!!!

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    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_getting-marriedwhile-going-thru-a-divorce-update?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:f4bf0ddb-cd0e-4f17-9e12-6b602a81094fPost:20a71bd1-35f0-4193-a1d6-c7623925f13a">Re:Getting married...while going thru a divorce update</a>:
    [QUOTE]In Response to Re:Getting married...while going thru a divorce update: Its no different then when you girls attack a person for coming on to a forum with a real life issue and you make jokes out of it or call that person dumb or stupid..like who died and made you God ? So yes I made sure to direct my comment to her and let her know what I think cause she sure didn't mind telling me how she felt with her sarcasm.
    Posted by MrsBad13[/QUOTE]
     
    Are you letting us know this was your AE on purpose?
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    You'll never be subject to a cash bar, gap, potluck wedding, or b-list if you marry a Muppet Overlord.

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    No..I'm using a friends laptop and didn't realize she was signed in. This is mine own accout and hers is hers. She has nothing to do with this situation nor does shebknow that I posted about this. She does know about my situation and she informed about this site a while ago. Sorry about that .
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    I knew there was no way this was real but I was a little excited about the possibilities.

    Thank you MrsBad!!

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    You'll never be subject to a cash bar, gap, potluck wedding, or b-list if you marry a Muppet Overlord.

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    Oops, did someone log into the wrong account to respond? AEs can be tricky like that. While I agree that Muppet's posts, and a few of the others, were childish and insulting, the difference is that you, or your alter ego rather, made a direct attack on her as a person. That's what makes it a violation of the TOS as we currently know them. Posted by StageManager14[/QUOTE] So I'm just supposed to let her attack me and not respond back. Isnt she doing the same thing when she responds to my post ?
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    edited April 2013
    In Response to Re:Getting married...while going thru a divorce update:I knew there was no way this was real but I was a little excited about the possibilities. Thank you MrsBad!! Posted by MuppetFan I'm not MrsBad..she is a friend of mine who is also getting married soon. I'm just using her laptop and didn't realize she was signed into her account.
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    I'm glad everything is working out for you!
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    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_getting-marriedwhile-going-thru-a-divorce-update?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:f4bf0ddb-cd0e-4f17-9e12-6b602a81094fPost:0232a4a5-ee5e-4edc-947f-2fc9495139ea">Re:Getting married...while going thru a divorce update</a>:
    [QUOTE]I'm glad everything is working out for you!
    Posted by STARMOON44[/QUOTE]

    <div>Please, let's just leave it here.  Thanks.</div>
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    In Response to Re:Getting married...while going thru a divorce update:[QUOTE]In Response to Re:Getting married...while going thru a divorce update:I'm with muppet, I like it when the crazies come out to play.nbsp; Posted by emeejeeayen

    ::shrug::

    I just think these boards are bordering on super catty and more immature entertainment than being helpful. And when I am the one saying that, you know it's bad.

    I have no problem reiterating that a horribly stupid idea is horribly stupid. But the flat out making fun of people is getting old. Posted by StageManager14[/QUOTE]

    This wouldn't be a problem if the knot worked like a normal message board and filtered by latest response. :/
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    Can I safely assume that your state doesn't have laws like mine does, then; stating that once your divorce is finaly, neither party can remarry for 6 months? I sure hope you don't have laws like that, or your wedding will be a "show" and you'll have to get married legally after the waiting period. Best of luck to you!
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    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_getting-marriedwhile-going-thru-a-divorce-update?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:f4bf0ddb-cd0e-4f17-9e12-6b602a81094fPost:eb42e114-b3b1-4ec7-975d-c1fb39faad54">Re: Getting married...while going thru a divorce update</a>:
    [QUOTE]Can I safely assume that your state doesn't have laws like mine does, then; stating that once your divorce is finaly, neither party can remarry for 6 months? I sure hope you don't have laws like that, or your wedding will be a "show" and you'll have to get married legally after the waiting period. Best of luck to you!
    Posted by mandi195[/QUOTE]


    It's a MUD. The AE messed up and posted yesterday. Killed it.
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    What was the resolution?  She DD'd so I didn't get to see it.  Nobody quoted.
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