A couple of days ago, I posted asking when I should ask my bridesmaids. Our wedding will likely be Sept 2014, assuming everything goes as planned.
I think the consensus was 6-9 months, but I think I may compromise, and ask my girls around Thanksgiving. Some of them are family, and Thanksgiving is a HUMONGOUS deal in our family, so that's what I'm thinking at this point...
BUT, let me ask you this ... His sister is asking me a LOT about the wedding (what colors, where, etc). Is it okay to still talk to her about this? I think she has an idea that I'm going to ask, but it's not official . Some comments made on my previous post were that my bridesmaid would basically just get tired of me.
Thoughts?