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New chapter in life starts today

Today is DS's last day of high school.  In less than an hour he will be done.  He is the baby of the clan.

I'm ok with this and the nest won't be empty anytime soon, but it will be such a change for me!  I have had kids in this school system continuously since 1985.  That happens when you have an oops baby.  For the last 27 years my life has synced with the school calendar.  It isn't anything I had to think about, it is just how it has always been.  I had vacays and time off of work based on that calendar.  I don't know anything else!!

I have mentioned before that he has Asperger's and he will definitely be home for a few more years.  He isn't as mature as a lot of his friends and that is something he will grow into in his own time.  College is looming around the corner (community college for the first two years) and they don't give a rip if he has Asperger's,  We know it will start off as a struggle but eventually it will get better.

He will be getting his first job in the next couple of weeks, and he (FINALLY, THANK YOU, JESUS, HALLELUJAH!!!) got his driver's license not quite two weeks ago.  He is the only kid I ever met who didn't want to drive to school.  His sister's were serious PITAs about that.  He's going on a road trip in a month with his 2 best buddies so we have been driving like crazy and need to get some more highway time in.  

This is turning into quite the ramble.  Sorry about that.  I just know that things are about to change, I no longer have to live by the school's calendar, and my days here at home, alone, are gone now that school is done.  Hmmm, is it too early for wine?  Isn't it 5 o'clock somewhere?

Re: New chapter in life starts today

  • lyndausvilyndausvi mod
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    edited May 2013
    Aw.  I'm sure it's bitter sweet for you.  It's sounds like he has a busy summer ahead of him.   I'm sure it will be nice not living around a school schedule.



    BTW - It's always 5 o'clock somewhere.   

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  • nswearensweare member
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    Congratulations! That's wonderful news. Although I imagine it will be hard not being involved in the school anymore. But think of the freedom!

    As far as the driving, if it makes you feel any better my baby sister didn't start driving until her 2nd year of college. She just never cared. I could never understand it, but different strokes I guess.

    Anyway, congrats again. What a great accomplishment for both your son and you! I definitely think it's wine 'o'clock somewhere. :)
  • Aww, thanks ladies!
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  • kmmsg, Congratulations to you and your DS.  What an exciting time for him (and somewhat scary time for you).

  • kks4471kks4471 member
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    Congratulations on the exciting accomplishment!!!
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  • Congratulations! I used to work with Autistic/Asperger's children and nothing makes my heart happier when I see them reaching these milestone's.  Congrats to you too for I am sure without the support you and your family gave these moments would not happen as seamlessly.  Hope you enjoy every moment!   
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  • Awww, congrats.  What a happy time.  And lucky you not having to be a slave to the school vacation schedule anymore.  My husband always complains about how much it costs to go on vacation as we have to go during the school times.  I work in a high school so this will be a forever thing for us.  I have quite a few students who wait to get their licenses surprisingly, so your son is not alone.  :)
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