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Shower hostess thank-yous - how to find out who's hosting?

My shower is taking place in three weeks and I'm very excited. I know two of my BMs are planning and I intend to pick them each up a bottle of wine as a thank-you (and give them after the shower) since I live far away from them and I may not see them for a while afterward. However, I'm not sure if anyone else is involved in planning/financing the party.

How do I obtain this information? I would feel rather nosy just plainly asking them.

Thanks in advance for the advice! You all keep me sane.

Re: Shower hostess thank-yous - how to find out who's hosting?

  • Can you ask one of the BMs you know is definitely helping to plan?

    OR, you can just ship out a gift after the shower.
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  • Honestly I would just ask. Or ask someone else who will definitely be at the shower to find out the info for you--one of your female relatives maybe?
  • I would ask. 
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  • It's not rude or nosy to ask - just let whoever you ask know that you want to know who you should thank for throwing you a party. No big deal.
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  • misshart00misshart00 member
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    edited June 2013
    Does it say on the invitation who is hosting? You could use that if it does.
  • Simple enough - thanks for the help, everyone!
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