I guess no one was watching me very closely when I ordered my RSVP cards. By the time I did notice that I had forgotten to include a 'due date' on them, I didn't want to make them any tackier and put a label, hand write, etc on the card....... But that works out just fine when your marrying my FI. We've gotten back 4 rsvps from his family that had more people than invited on the card. I was sure to put Mr and Mrs X on the card, not The X family. One card had 7 on it... Who ya bringing? Your neighborhood? I want my FI to contact these people, but he is a pushover at times, and I don't think he wants any drama from family. I don't appreciate the lack of respect shown when cards are sent back with disregard to the invitation. Save me, knotties!!!