Hi everyone! I am getting addresses together to give to my MOH, who is very generously planning a shower for me and FI. Most of the guests will be local to my hometown, where the shower will be held. I have a few guests who are very close friends, but live 4 and 6 hours away. Is it ok to leave them off the shower invite list? I don't want them to be upset if they find out there was a shower and they weren't invited, but I also don't want anyone feeling obligated to make such a trip to my little hometown just for a shower that will be mostly my close family anyway. Thoughts? Thanks in advance!