Hi ladies! I'm in need of some advice...
My FI and I are having an adults only reception, and I'm looking for advice on how to politely let our guests know their children are not invited without hurting feelings. Normally, having to make a call and letting a guest know our reception is adults only (if they were to RSVP for their children) wouldn't be a huge deal, but his side of the family is ENORMOUS and full of kids, and my side of the family has quite a few as well. I'm not sure I'll have the time to make 50+ separate phone calls to let people know their children aren't invited. I would like to put something on the invitations, or an inclusion into the invite envelopes stating that our reception is for the grown up's only but I'm worried about how it would come off to our guests. Would it be tacky or tasteless to include something like that? My mother and future MIL aren't much help in this matter, as they both feel all of the kids should be invited, but that would push our guest list way over our 300 person venue limit and over our budget. Another issue is that our venue is a historic building and isn't child friendly within itself.
What would you do in this situation? I've got some time before we need to send out invitations, however I want to get them printed and ready to go while I have the time.
Thanks!