Good Morning!
I made a "mock guest list" myself and my fiancé. My fiancé list is pretty much set in stone, mine is for the most part, though I have been thinking about a few friends I have on my guest list and these two friends and there husbands I really don't talk to, not even through FB. One of the friends we went to school together since elementary days, we weren't super close, but did hang out occasionally and were close at one point because she was helping me look for my first apartment and then my condo I was invited to her wedding like 6 years ago and to her baby shower but never hang out just the two of us and , we had a mutual friend that I'm not longer friends with and that was pretty much the only time we did hang out was when it was a group of us. My other friend we met about a few years back and were really close always hanging out, over the last year or so we have not been close. I've made several attempts to hang out with her, with no success. I know she's busy because she just had a baby in Jan, so I understand and I know babies take up a lot of time. I do have them on the guest list because I have pictured them at my wedding one day, though now I'm kinda having second thoughts, though if I don't invite them would it ruin the relationship, I'm not trying to by any means I just want people at my wedding who are most important to me and are closest to me.
Has anyone come across this and how did you handle it.