I believe I have just finalized the style! After moving away from gray bridesmaid dresses and wanting to have each girl in a different pastel, I started to realize that my wedding was going to look like a pastel factory exploded all over it. Pink, coral, watermelon, tangerine dresses and flowers and linens and decorations... just too much! So I started looking at gray again. And I think I have it figured out. The whole wedding party will be in gray. The girls will have a different color sash, the guys different colored ties. The flowers and everything else will be bold, but the clothes toned down. Bows and flowers will be throughout.