My family and bridesmaids are from one city, I live approx 1.5 hours from there and have a lot of people from there to invite to the bridal shower. My fiances family lives 1.5 hours the OTHER way from where we live (so 3 hours from where my family/bridesmaids are. Where do we have the shower?? Is it even up to me?? Can I ask his grandmas, mom, sisters, aunts to drive three hours??