Last night FI wasn't feeling well which is unusual for him. We went to bed early and I woke up to FIs younger brother calling us their dad was in the ER and to come home ASAP. We drove the hour+ home, and FI was just so sure his dad had broken his arm irrigating.
At the hospital we found out his dad had suffered a blunt force trauma to the head from a tree in their orchard while driving tractor. Some other pretty horrific thing happened as well. He was dead long before anyone thought to look for him. FI, his younger and older brother, are all distraught.
FI and I have always said if either of our younger siblings (all three 18) were left parentless we would move them in with us an hour away and make sure they got through school. Little brother is convinced he should stay by himself in the family home, but we all (older brother, FI, FSIL, and I) agree he needs adult support and should move in with us.
Are we wrong to want him to move? How on earth do we support him financially and emotionally if he doesn't when we all live an hour away? I'm just so upset I'm not certain I'm thinking straight.