I met with this great photographer. But when I say great, I mean her personality. We instantly clicked. She's actually a friend of a friend, and I feel like the two of us could form a friendship. We got to chit chatting and we have a lot in common. Her pictures are of good quality, but I was attracted to her work-ethic, friendliness, and open-mindedness. Only problem is - she kind of ASSUMED that just because we showed an interest in her, we definitely want to use her services. She has sent multiple overly-excited e-mails (signing them with the word "hugs"), saying that our wedding day will be beautiful, asking if we have any questions, yada ya. Which would be great had we said that we would definitely like to book her.
We have since found a photographer whose work I ADORE. He has wonderful reviews and his photography style is exactly how I'd like for our wedding. He's less expensive, too. There are a few downsides, as he doesn't work with a second shooter and I don't believe he's quite as friendly (but I have only talked to him via e-mail) as the aforementioned photographer. But shouldn't picture quality be more important than the photographer's personality?
If we do decide to go with the photography whose work we like more, how can I let the first photographer down easy? She seemed so excited to shoot our wedding, but it's also not really fair to us as clients who simply showed an interest and never committed. She's such a nice person and I'm such a people pleaser. Help!